• Month of Delights Day 1

    I’ve been reading Ross Gay’s The Book of (More) Delights, his second year-long exploration of the simple daily things that bring him delight in the form of a collection of what he calls, essayettes. I enjoyed reading the first book. Delighting in things is a way of life for me, so it was a beautiful…

  • In 2024, I’m going to keep*

    …Going to bed early or when my body says its time—no matter what the clock says * muting the old narratives in my mind that cause me pain, sadness, and disappointment—a daily and sometimes hourly practice * cultivating this smaller, quieter life and concentrate on connection over quantity or socialized norms for how I “should”…

  • Gifts of Seasons Past

    I’m a winter baby born on the third day of the new year. My year’s worth of gift opening is concentrated into the span of two weeks. I keep my Christmas tree up for my birthday. I let the Christmas cheer of the past few weeks spill over and transform into birthday celebration. I am…

  • Taking Stalk vol. 2

    The usher pointed her scanner at the bar code a second time. We saw the problem at the same time. The ticket I’d purchased was for the night before. I felt a moment of despair. I really wanted to attend the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra’s holiday concert. She pointed to the box office behind me….

  • A Good Saturday – a list

    Listened to podcasts when I woke too early Monthly Zoom conversation with church folk Embroidery projects – finished one and started another Cups of Melbourne Morning black tea Plants and seeds watered Weeds pulled Multiple episodes of Tell Me More with Kelly Corrigan on pbs.org Pedicure with Manda with coral polish Cheesecake Blizzard from DQ…

  • Seismic

    I did not share the day’s big news during two substantive conversations I did not describe losing the power steering on my commute a few blocks from my office and the trusty Firestone location There were more important things to hear: post-surgery progress, lost rodeo bull found, balloons for a baby gone 16 years Trauma…

  • Breaking Habit No. 2

    Snip. Snip. Snip. I am typing on my keyboard for a few hours, and can feel my nails catch on the keys in a way that distracts me. I have been a life-long nail biter. I rarely have nails long enough to get caught on anything but my teeth. I have been working at breaking…

  • New Year, New Word

    I chose YES as my word of 2022. I can only predict how the word I choose will shape the 365 days that lay before me. I had hoped that this new website might open up new opportunities to which I could say yes. That has not happened yet, but two unforeseen opportunities to answer…